Archive for September, 2005

Happy Birthday

Sunday, September 18th, 2005

Exactly 30 years ago, I was born into this world….  Many things have been happening to me in the last 30 years: happiness, sadness, adventure, love, up, down, ….  A lot of stories and memories….  I just can’t believe that I am standing at this point right now.  I have gone through many difficult situations, especially when I was in Germany.  Thanks to God and everyone, especially Emi, who have helped me to reach this point.  In the near future, I see a big challenge waiting for me….  So let’s see what is going to happen, I will keep my blog updated… :)

Chinese Who Don’t Speak Chinese

Thursday, September 15th, 2005

Chinese who don’t speak Chinese… yet it’s true, I am one of them.  Actually a lot of Indonesian Chinese, i.e. Chinese people living in Indonesia as a result of big migration hundred years ago, don’t speak Chinese.  There are however some Indonesian who still speak Chinese, although the number is not so high.

Why do we have this situation?  As far as I know, this was because of political reason.  Our second president, Soeharto, who ruled the country from 1966 - 1998, doesn’t like Chinese.  So he banned the use of Chinese language, many Chinese schools were burnt at that time (including my mother’s school).  Furthermore, Indonesian Chinese had to change their names to "Indonesian" names.  That’s why… my name is "Antony Pranata", not "Ang Ming Oe".  A bit ridiculous, but that was has happened in Indonesia.

The situation has been changing gradually since 1998 after Soeharto resigned as president.  A lot of schools in Indonesia are now teaching Chinese language.  Some Chinese culture, like lion king (a.k.a. barongsai), can be found in many occasions.  Chinese New Year is now a public holiday in Indonesia.  Is it a good sign?  I don’t know…. :(

Another interesting trend is a lot of Chinese Indonesian want to learn Chinese language (a.k.a Mandarin), including my girl friend and my cousins.  I don’t know what the reason is, may be they feel ashamed as a Chinese but don’t speak Chinese.  There is an interesting story about myself.  Because I look like a real Chinese, when I meet Chinese people, usually they will talk to me in Chinese…. they will usually surprise when I tell them that I don’t speak Chinese.

China itself knows that many Indonesian want to learn Chinese.  So they open the door widely for Indonesian to learn Chinese language there.  Many universities and private institutions offer various language courses, from short term courses (2-3 months) to long term courses (1-2 years).  I don’t know the exact number of Indonesian students there, but Chinese people are enjoying $$$ flowing to their country.

The problem is that a lot of institutions offer a low quality courses (they just want $$$ from Indonesian).  And this is the silly thing: they just keep sending their children to China sometimes without really checking the quality.  Anyway, learning a new language is always a good thing, especially Chinese.

As we have seen, China is becoming an economic giant in the world.  Many American and European countries have been investing their money to China because Chinese labor is damn cheap.  From what I have heard, many Chinese are willing to work non-stop from Monday to Sunday, even 10 - 12 hours/day.  Amazing, huh?  Will the situation remain like this the future?

I don’t want to be an economic analyst here.  A lot of study about China and their impact to globalization has been done….  What I am afraid of is "overinvestment in China" in the next couple of years?  May be it is one of the reason why Chinese government abandoning Yuan-Dollar peg a few months ago.

Long Distance… Again

Tuesday, September 13th, 2005

Last week, Emi, my girl friend, flew to Xiamen, China to study Chinese language for 1 semester (may be longer)… it means we have to live in another long distance relationship, Canada - China… :(

We have had a long distance relationship last time when I worked in Germany and she worked in Singapore.  It was a very tough time, but we have managed it to work.  I still remember clearly when I made a big surprise by visiting her for 4 days during New Year 2005 holiday.  The visit was not planned at all…. and this is the most interesting one: I made the decision to visit her 120 hours before my flight!  Can you imagine that?  I had to find a ticket from Germany to Singapore within 120 hours and it was Christmas holiday…. everybody is on holiday in Germany.

After looking around for several hours on the Internet, I got a ticket to Singapore via Paris… On the day of my flight, there was a big snow in Ruhr area, the area where I lived.  I checked the Internet and the morning flight to Paris was cancelled due to bad weather… oh, my God… fortunately, it didn’t happen to my flight…. I flew to Singapore smoothly…. and the rest was an unforgettable moment in Singapore…

Long distance relationship is of course not easy and challenging, but it is of course not impossible.  We need commitment, honesty, understanding, trust, and many more.  Fortunately now we live in Internet era.  It’s quite cheap to make a phone call using VoIP.  Using broadband Internet, we can even see each other using webcam.  I cannot imagine what would happen if we would have had a long distance relationship 15 - 20 years ago.

Anyway, I will try my best to make this relationship works.

For Emi: I miss you so much…. All the best for your study too….  just like Richard Marx’s song, "Wherever you go, whatever you do, I will be right here waiting for you".